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By fonewear 2015-02-13 10:21:56
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Grammatical errors I may have written this book.

I do work for the Huff Post so it is possible.
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2015-02-13 10:22:52
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fonewear said: »
Grammatical errors I may have written this book.

I do work for the Huff Post so it is possible.

You're huffing something, no doubt about that.
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By Bloodrose 2015-02-13 10:23:17
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Fone is huffing some premium post.
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By fonewear 2015-02-13 10:23:23
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Hey don't knock my beloved feminism ideals till you try them.

I never truly lived till feminism touched my soul.

Then I had to be put a "watch list"


Let's just say they won't let me near the women's shoe department...there was some...unpleasantness...
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-02-13 10:26:30
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Valefor.Sapphire said: »
book about an abusive relationship.
Actually this is what interested me, as a person with a strong tendency to get in abusive relationships.

But those quotes alone have killed any interest I may ever have for this. I just can't take this seriously anymore.
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By Bloodrose 2015-02-13 10:27:35
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Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Bloodrose said: »
There were people trying to defend this... "artist" by claiming she had "researched" BDSM and the kink lifestyle intensively. Turns out that she was actually "inspired" by the idea of the Twilight characters in questionable scenarios related to kink she had seen through porn.

There were some interviews where the publicist for her had claimed they had done psychological research into the fetishistic lifestyle of BDSM, but to anyone in the lifestyle, they knew it was a crock of ***, and as Ramyrez pointed out, incredibly bad writing.

I'm sure it would make Magnuss cringe just pointing out all the grammar errors.
As a practicioner of 'bdsm' activities over the years, I just roll my eyes when I hear BDSM and FSOG in the same sentence.

I find it laughable that the author 'researched it', I would argue that the relationship+physical+emotional nuances of BDSM is only something you can understand until you experience it in some form firsthand. It varies wildly by the person or couple, etc walls of text could not begin to explain it.

Anyways as ramyrez pointed out, FSOG is just a badly written garbage book about an abusive relationship.
The sad part is, that a lot of people actually believe that BDSM is nothing but abuse, despite the practices found therein to be cathartic and a great reliever of stress.
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2015-02-13 10:27:37
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Not gonna lie, I will be watching the movie. While drinking something.
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By fonewear 2015-02-13 10:27:44
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See I won't read anything that is fiction. If I want to read made up stories I come here !
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By Bloodrose 2015-02-13 10:28:36
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-02-13 10:29:04
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Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »
Not gonna lie, I will be watching the movie. While drinking something.
I'll wait for it to come out on tv, not gonna spend a cent to watch it in cinema, or bother to download it.
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2015-02-13 10:29:53
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Bloodrose said: »
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Bloodrose said: »
There were people trying to defend this... "artist" by claiming she had "researched" BDSM and the kink lifestyle intensively. Turns out that she was actually "inspired" by the idea of the Twilight characters in questionable scenarios related to kink she had seen through porn.

There were some interviews where the publicist for her had claimed they had done psychological research into the fetishistic lifestyle of BDSM, but to anyone in the lifestyle, they knew it was a crock of ***, and as Ramyrez pointed out, incredibly bad writing.

I'm sure it would make Magnuss cringe just pointing out all the grammar errors.
As a practicioner of 'bdsm' activities over the years, I just roll my eyes when I hear BDSM and FSOG in the same sentence.

I find it laughable that the author 'researched it', I would argue that the relationship+physical+emotional nuances of BDSM is only something you can understand until you experience it in some form firsthand. It varies wildly by the person or couple, etc walls of text could not begin to explain it.

Anyways as ramyrez pointed out, FSOG is just a badly written garbage book about an abusive relationship.
The sad part is, that a lot of people actually believe that BDSM is nothing but abuse, despite the practices found therein to be cathartic and a great reliever of stress.

Because when you say BDSM people immediately evoke images of dungeon porn, ballgags, spiked *** and a guy getting his *** spanked with a paddle by a 6'7 German lady named Ingrid decked out in black latex mangling English repeating the phrase "You like, ya?" as the poor male screams in pain.
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By fonewear 2015-02-13 10:31:28
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I just think of the Zed scene from Pulp Fiction.
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By Bloodrose 2015-02-13 10:31:28
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That has never been my particular image received when I think of BDSM...


Sparth, is this a cry for help?
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By fonewear 2015-02-13 10:32:04
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Bloodrose said: »
That has never been my particular image received when I think of BDSM...


Sparth, is this a cry for help?

It's too late for him save the little ones !
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-02-13 10:33:24
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Bloodrose said: »
Sparth, is this a cry for help?
It's fine, he liked it afterall.
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By fonewear 2015-02-13 10:33:31
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Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »
Bloodrose said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Bloodrose said: »
There were people trying to defend this... "artist" by claiming she had "researched" BDSM and the kink lifestyle intensively. Turns out that she was actually "inspired" by the idea of the Twilight characters in questionable scenarios related to kink she had seen through porn.

There were some interviews where the publicist for her had claimed they had done psychological research into the fetishistic lifestyle of BDSM, but to anyone in the lifestyle, they knew it was a crock of ***, and as Ramyrez pointed out, incredibly bad writing.

I'm sure it would make Magnuss cringe just pointing out all the grammar errors.
As a practicioner of 'bdsm' activities over the years, I just roll my eyes when I hear BDSM and FSOG in the same sentence.

I find it laughable that the author 'researched it', I would argue that the relationship+physical+emotional nuances of BDSM is only something you can understand until you experience it in some form firsthand. It varies wildly by the person or couple, etc walls of text could not begin to explain it.

Anyways as ramyrez pointed out, FSOG is just a badly written garbage book about an abusive relationship.
The sad part is, that a lot of people actually believe that BDSM is nothing but abuse, despite the practices found therein to be cathartic and a great reliever of stress.

Because when you say BDSM people immediately evoke images of dungeon porn, ballgags, spiked *** and a guy getting his *** spanked with a paddle by a 6'7 German lady named Ingrid decked out in black latex mangling English repeating the phrase "You like, ya?" as the poor male screams in pain.

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By Valefor.Sapphire 2015-02-13 10:38:09
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
book about an abusive relationship.
Actually this is what interested me, as a person with a strong tendency to get in abusive relationships.

But those quotes alone have killed any interest I may ever have for this. I just can't take this seriously anymore.
A great deal of relationships that are abusive are rooted in some form of codependency.
At their core, abusive relationships are some mix of physical+financial+emotional+sexual manipulation to maintain the status-quo (stay together) or assert+maintain dominance in favor of ending the relationship.
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By Ramyrez 2015-02-13 10:39:06
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fonewear said: »
I just think of the Zed scene from Pulp Fiction.

Zed's dead, baby. Zed's dead.
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By Valefor.Sapphire 2015-02-13 10:42:08
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Bloodrose said: »
The sad part is, that a lot of people actually believe that BDSM is nothing but abuse, despite the practices found therein to be cathartic and a great reliever of stress.
I really miss the past BF I had that let me whip him, it was a great way to unwind after a long aggravating day at work!
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By Ramyrez 2015-02-13 10:42:49
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Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
book about an abusive relationship.
Actually this is what interested me, as a person with a strong tendency to get in abusive relationships.

But those quotes alone have killed any interest I may ever have for this. I just can't take this seriously anymore.
A great deal of relationships that are abusive are rooted in some form of codependency.
At their core, abusive relationships are some mix of physical+financial+emotional+sexual manipulation to maintain the status-quo (stay together) or assert+maintain dominance in favor of ending the relationship.

I have a truly unfortunate suspicion that many of the women who love this story do so because it's not so much an erotic fiction as much as a fantasized/idealized version of their own lives and situations.
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By Ramyrez 2015-02-13 10:43:57
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Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Bloodrose said: »
The sad part is, that a lot of people actually believe that BDSM is nothing but abuse, despite the practices found therein to be cathartic and a great reliever of stress.
I really miss the past BF I had that let me whip him, it was a great way to unwind after a long aggravating day at work!

*taps at tablet*

"Note to self: if wife leaves, do not pursue Sapphire. Despite being a fellow corsair, she will whip you."
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2015-02-13 10:46:06
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Ramyrez said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Bloodrose said: »
The sad part is, that a lot of people actually believe that BDSM is nothing but abuse, despite the practices found therein to be cathartic and a great reliever of stress.
I really miss the past BF I had that let me whip him, it was a great way to unwind after a long aggravating day at work!

*taps at tablet*

"Note to self: if wife leaves, do not pursue Sapphire. Despite being a fellow corsair, she will whip you."
*Note to self: Ramy doesn't like to be whipped. Make sure to buy extra whips for Ramy-proofing house.

Also, buy eggs and milk on the way home.*
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2015-02-13 10:47:45
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Bloodrose said: »
That has never been my particular image received when I think of BDSM...


Sparth, is this a cry for help?

It's a cry for a lady named Ingrid out there who may want to have a good time. 6'7, master race only.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-02-13 10:48:08
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Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
book about an abusive relationship.
Actually this is what interested me, as a person with a strong tendency to get in abusive relationships.

But those quotes alone have killed any interest I may ever have for this. I just can't take this seriously anymore.
A great deal of relationships that are abusive are rooted in some form of codependency.
At their core, abusive relationships are some mix of physical+financial+emotional+sexual manipulation to maintain the status-quo (stay together) or assert+maintain dominance in favor of ending the relationship.
I'll leave it alone cause I don't wanna make this thread devolve into something serious, but...yyyeah I know what an abusive relationship is.
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By Valefor.Sapphire 2015-02-13 10:50:36
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Ramyrez said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
book about an abusive relationship.
Actually this is what interested me, as a person with a strong tendency to get in abusive relationships.

But those quotes alone have killed any interest I may ever have for this. I just can't take this seriously anymore.
A great deal of relationships that are abusive are rooted in some form of codependency.
At their core, abusive relationships are some mix of physical+financial+emotional+sexual manipulation to maintain the status-quo (stay together) or assert+maintain dominance in favor of ending the relationship.

I have a truly unfortunate suspicion that many of the women who love this story do so because it's not so much an erotic fiction as much as a fantasized/idealized version of their own lives and situations.
The guy being rich somehow perversely romanticizes it for some women and makes it okay I guess!
There will always be stupid women that will put up with abusive relationships if the guy has money.
/shakes head
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2015-02-13 10:52:34
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
book about an abusive relationship.
Actually this is what interested me, as a person with a strong tendency to get in abusive relationships.

But those quotes alone have killed any interest I may ever have for this. I just can't take this seriously anymore.
A great deal of relationships that are abusive are rooted in some form of codependency.
At their core, abusive relationships are some mix of physical+financial+emotional+sexual manipulation to maintain the status-quo (stay together) or assert+maintain dominance in favor of ending the relationship.
I'll leave it alone cause I don't wanna make this thread devolve into something serious, but...yyyeah I know what an abusive relationship is.

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Asura.Kingnobody said: »
Ramyrez said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Bloodrose said: »
The sad part is, that a lot of people actually believe that BDSM is nothing but abuse, despite the practices found therein to be cathartic and a great reliever of stress.
I really miss the past BF I had that let me whip him, it was a great way to unwind after a long aggravating day at work!

*taps at tablet*

"Note to self: if wife leaves, do not pursue Sapphire. Despite being a fellow corsair, she will whip you."
*Note to self: Ramy doesn't like to be whipped. Make sure to buy extra whips for Ramy-proofing house.

Also, buy eggs and milk on the way home.*

Nothing can make a house Rammie-proof.
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By Bloodrose 2015-02-13 10:53:23
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Except if it's filled with them... CANADIANS!
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Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Ramyrez said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
Valefor.Sapphire said: »
book about an abusive relationship.
Actually this is what interested me, as a person with a strong tendency to get in abusive relationships.

But those quotes alone have killed any interest I may ever have for this. I just can't take this seriously anymore.
A great deal of relationships that are abusive are rooted in some form of codependency.
At their core, abusive relationships are some mix of physical+financial+emotional+sexual manipulation to maintain the status-quo (stay together) or assert+maintain dominance in favor of ending the relationship.

I have a truly unfortunate suspicion that many of the women who love this story do so because it's not so much an erotic fiction as much as a fantasized/idealized version of their own lives and situations.
The guy being rich somehow perversely romanticizes it for some women and makes it okay I guess!
There will always be stupid women that will put up with abusive relationships if the guy has money.
/shakes head

We call them bimbos.
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By Ramyrez 2015-02-13 10:55:56
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Bloodrose said: »
Except if it's filled with them... CANADIANS!

I like Canadians. And Canada.

If I could find appropriate work for my wife and I there in our fields and at a similar pay rate, I'd move their in a heartbeat.