Killasan, I recall your posting at the time this initially happened to you and I am sorry for your loss.
I must tell you, when you forget to use any punctuation and utilize all caps (SCREAMING) your entire point {trying to help people avoid two bad players} is completely lost to everyone reading.
I believe that you sincerely believe what you're typing; however, please..... if you want to reach anyone with your message.... force yourself to calm down and express clearly with everyone or you're not just wasting your own time but everyone else's who simply "cant" read through all the non-punctuated all-caps text.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss and personally I'd love to see two things for you, since I read the original post you made some time ago and then this one today. 1)I'd love to see you be able to walk away from the two scumbags - since you have attempted to shine light on their deeds - and then 2)refocus your life on the ones that need it most, your kids.. they suffered the loss of your husband too and taking your anger out on the scumbags isn't going to bring him back. I'm sorry.
If you really must get your message about these two out, please take the time to read my post and listen. People will only read what your saying if your not screaming at everyone your trying to "help".
I wish you and your kids all the best in life and I will say a prayer for you and your children to have the strength to carry on without your husband.