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FFXI LGBT Community, who are you?
Pandemonium.Scrumpet
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Game: FFXI
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-04-17 01:03:00
Look at the responses to Zahrah's picture in the post your RL pics thread~ xD
Not all men are like that~ (Especially you, Spency-poo :3)
I just try to minimize conflict.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-17 01:06:49
Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Look at the responses to Zahrah's picture in the post your RL pics thread~ xD
Not all men are like that~ (Especially you, Spency-poo :3)
I just try to minimize conflict.
Comparing all straight males to the population of straight male posters on this site is just mean. I mean honestly a majority of them probably don't see attractive females often and even when they do the odds of them being able to communicate intelligently are slim to none.
Pandemonium.Scrumpet
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-04-17 01:13:11
Ramuh.Urial said: Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Look at the responses to Zahrah's picture in the post your RL pics thread~ xD
Not all men are like that~ (Especially you, Spency-poo :3)
I just try to minimize conflict.
Comparing all straight males to the population of straight male posters on this site is just mean. I mean honestly a majority of them probably don't see attractive females often and even when they do the odds of them being able to communicate intelligently are slim to none.
I am not generalizing all straight males, haha.
I've personally just found it difficult and stressful at times~ @@;
One example I can pull personal experience from is my lab partner for Organic Chemistry.
Brilliant young man, got distracted by every set of "knockers" that happened to pass by our lab table. xD
Sele has also found them particularly difficult to deal with.
This was always me:
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-17 01:18:59
Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Look at the responses to Zahrah's picture in the post your RL pics thread~ xD
Not all men are like that~ (Especially you, Spency-poo :3)
I just try to minimize conflict.
I imagine they're similar to Celeste's pic? Well, gamers aren't exactly known for their social skills.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-17 01:19:14
Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Ramuh.Urial said: Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Look at the responses to Zahrah's picture in the post your RL pics thread~ xD
Not all men are like that~ (Especially you, Spency-poo :3)
I just try to minimize conflict.
Comparing all straight males to the population of straight male posters on this site is just mean. I mean honestly a majority of them probably don't see attractive females often and even when they do the odds of them being able to communicate intelligently are slim to none.
I am not generalizing all straight males, haha.
I've personally just found it difficult and stressful at times~ @@;
One example I can pull personal experience from is my lab partner for Organic Chemistry.
Brilliant young man, got distracted by every set of "knockers" that happened to pass by our lab table. xD
Sele has also found them particularly difficult to deal with.
This was always me:
You can't really blame your lab partner for finding people physically attractive. That's just human nature no matter if you're straight bi gay or lesbian. And at the age where you would be having a lab partner in school or university hormones run higher. It's just nature. It doesn't mean he thinks any less because he looks at women or even if he says "knockers" instead of breast. Now making sexist comments would be different, but as for looking and observing everyone does that.
Edit: Also it totally depends on the lab. Chem/physics lab ehhhh dat mass would be boring if it's a 2-3hr Uni lab :/ Then again I'm a history nerd.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-17 01:19:40
Fairy.Spence said: Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Look at the responses to Zahrah's picture in the post your RL pics thread~ xD
Not all men are like that~ (Especially you, Spency-poo :3)
I just try to minimize conflict.
I imagine they're similar to Celeste's pic? Well, gamers aren't exactly known for their social skills.
That was my point lol.
Edit: To avoid a triple post I'm gonna go play some Rift now ^^ BBL everyone.
Pandemonium.Scrumpet
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-04-17 01:25:02
Oh believe me, I think certain people are aesthetically attractive, however, I repress comments because they are certainly not professional and acceptable in a public setting. In fact, I generally keep expressions of lust to myself.
Back on topic, I just have enough personal experience - backed up with ongoing studies - to assume, with reasonable evidence, that men are more comfortable with expressing such interests in a public setting.
It is a barbaric attribute that has been present throughout our "modern society" throughout the conception of a male-dominate society.
Edit:
How is Rift, Urial?! D:
I thought it looked super interesting! ;~;
Also, talk to you tomorrow! ^^;
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-17 01:29:21
Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Oh believe me, I think certain people are aesthetically attractive~
I just have enough personal experience - backed up with ongoing studies - to assume with reasonable evidence that men are more comfortable with expressing such interests in a public setting.
It is a barbaric attribute that has been present throughout our "modern society" throughout the conception of a male-dominate society.
Edit:
How is Rift, Urial?! D:
I thought it looked super interesting! ;~;
Also, talk to you tomorrow! ^^; Had to say this real quick. Rift is addictive and one of the funnest MMO's I've played. Unlike FFXI I don't need a linkshell of 18+ people to have fun. Or I don't need to be competing to low man X NM for fun. I can have tons of just playing alone or with a couple of friend or when there are big invasions I can join the public group to take down the invasion boss. If interested theres a couple screenshots here.
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-17 01:30:36
I dunno, I consider it to be a bonding experience of sorts. I think calling it barbaric is exaggerating a bit.
Midgardsormr.Deonz
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By Midgardsormr.Deonz 2011-04-17 01:32:23
I like boys. But if I see a good pair of knockers I still find myself staring intently. They are just so amazing. Backstage, we have 40 models running around with no tops on.
That was so fun. Pretty sure I've seen more boobs at once than most straight guys.
Ramuh.Urial
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-04-17 01:36:19
Fairy.Spence said: I dunno, I consider it to be a bonding experience of sorts. I think calling it barbaric is exaggerating a bit. This. It's something that when in a group of straight guys no matter any differences you may have...you still gotta agree when you come across a nice pair. It's not like we are going to go out and rape the chick though.
Pandemonium.Scrumpet
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-04-17 01:39:24
Fairy.Spence said: I dunno, I consider it to be a bonding experience of sorts. I think calling it barbaric is exaggerating a bit.
I love Gender Studies and I usually use terminology like that out of passion. @_@;
Just to clarify, if y'all don't know me, I generally tend to be completely idealistic.
I understand that straight males generally have their bondings (as do women) where being unprofessional is acceptable.
However, in a setting like a workplace or a laboratory, things like that are a no-go for me. ;~;
I mean, in the case of my lab partner and I, I am not his friend - I am his academic teammate.
Obviously, on the internet people are trolls and use this to browse leisurely.
Again, in conclusion, in public/semi-social I generally shy away from straight men who appear haughty.
(Omg, there are so many holes in my argument. . .
Tooooo tired! D:)
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-17 01:44:11
Midgardsormr.Deonz said: I like boys. But if I see a good pair of knockers I still find myself staring intently. They are just so amazing. Backstage, we have 40 models running around with no tops on.
That was so fun. Pretty sure I've seen more boobs at once than most straight guys.
I usually won't pay much attention unless the girl is wearing a low cut top and they're bending over or something. I'm more of an *** man.
Don't worry, Scrumpet, I know what you mean. Sometimes I just can't help but think with the little head.
Pandemonium.Scrumpet
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-04-17 01:48:47
Keep it to a minimum! xD
(I understand comments slip out but, again minimize~ :'D)
Midgardsormr.Deonz
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By Midgardsormr.Deonz 2011-04-17 01:49:05
Pfft. I love boobies. Professionally or not~~
Bahamut.Dasva
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-04-17 01:49:19
Midgardsormr.Deonz said: I like boys. But if I see a good pair of knockers I still find myself staring intently. They are just so amazing. Backstage, we have 40 models running around with no tops on. That was so fun. Pretty sure I've seen more boobs at once than most straight guys. Take me with you!
Cerberus.Irohuro
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-17 01:49:27
omg you guys! i need urgent help!!!! does anyone run windows xp??
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-17 01:52:06
Nope!
Midgardsormr.Deonz
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By Midgardsormr.Deonz 2011-04-17 01:56:02
7. Not XP.
Cerberus.Irohuro
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-17 02:03:24
i've mostly fixed my problem =/
i borked my path variable trying to add the JDK path to it
Asura.Ina
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By Asura.Ina 2011-04-17 07:59:40
mmm some catching up to do... Spoilered for anyone who doesnt care about my rambling :P
Alexander.Carrelo said: Asura.Selennia said: Alexander.Carrelo said: Weeeellll things didn't go anywhere with the guy I dated last week, back to square one. >__> Aww :( I'm sure the next one will be better though! Hopefully. XD I'm just troubled by the fact that I've been on 1 date in 20 years. ***takes toooo loooooooong lol
Thats 1 more then I've been on... Havn't actually tried though, if its not someone I think I could have a good chance of it being long term I'm not interested. Been thinking about it latly but working 10pm - 6am with mondays and tuesdays as nights off doesn't fit the dating sceen much... That and I'm super shy dispite apperences sometimes >.>
Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Alexander.Carrelo said: lol you sound like an old guy XD ! Don't let medicine steal away your youthfulness. :3 I may have personally only lived 18 years but, I've learned from those who have lived a thousand years combined.
So your like i was a couple years ago... This could go one of two ways for you... A) Medicine will steal your youthfulness. B) You will develope a shield of dirty humor and/or sarcasm to protect your self and stay young mentally for ever... B is much more fun trust me, the 60something woman I work with who cracks dirty jokes all the time would agrees with me :P
Fairy.Spence said: I'm more of an *** man. ^This
Pandemonium.Scrumpet
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-04-17 10:39:13
Good Morning, y'all! <3
Asura.Ina
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By Asura.Ina 2011-04-17 12:20:24
Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Good Morning, y'all! <3
Delayed good morning... and in a few minutes good night XD
Pandemonium.Scrumpet
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By Pandemonium.Scrumpet 2011-04-17 12:25:01
Asura.Ina said: Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Good Morning, y'all! <3
Delayed good morning... and in a few minutes good night XD
Stop being nocturnal! xD
Asura.Ina
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By Asura.Ina 2011-04-17 12:33:31
Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Asura.Ina said: Pandemonium.Scrumpet said: Good Morning, y'all! <3 Delayed good morning... and in a few minutes good night XD Stop being nocturnal! xD
Psh the sun is over-rated...
On another note...
wtf mother nature must you be such a bish, it's over half way through April why is it snowing >.>
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-17 12:34:30
Asura.Ina said:
Psh the sun is over-rated...
On another note...
wtf mother nature must you be such a bish, it's over half way through April why is it snowing >.>
Oh, God, where do you live? I don't want to look outside now.
Asura.Ina
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By Asura.Ina 2011-04-17 12:39:13
Fairy.Spence said: Asura.Ina said: Psh the sun is over-rated... On another note... wtf mother nature must you be such a bish, it's over half way through April why is it snowing >.> Oh, God, where do you live? I don't want to look outside now.
Burlington Ontario... it's a bit west/south-west of Toronto. It's not super bad snow, melting as soon as it hits the ground and been going inbetween with rain and a bit of hail. It was more of a look out the window and wtf moment. I maintain that a new ice age is comming >.>
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-17 12:40:11
I'm in Kitcener, which isn't far...
Asura.Ina
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By Asura.Ina 2011-04-17 12:42:22
Pepare the secret canadian snow defences just in case.
Fairy.Spence
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-04-17 12:52:30
It's snowing and there is white on the ground...
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.
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