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FFXI LGBT Community, who are you?
By Yuffy 2010-02-24 11:37:22
Unicorn.Liir said: Yuffy said: Oh dont worry, i wont steal him, even though he has a very sexy voice.
Inorite! Canadian/french/wtf accent =D He never really spoke french to me though ;;
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By Unicorn.Liir 2010-02-24 11:41:49
Yuffy said: Unicorn.Liir said: Yuffy said: Oh dont worry, i wont steal him, even though he has a very sexy voice.
Inorite! Canadian/french/wtf accent =D He never really spoke french to me though ;;
He only speaks french to me when I've pissed him off so I have no idea what he's saying ><
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By Fairy.Evanthegai 2010-02-24 12:06:19
um.... i know think the community threads are gonna start getting idiotic...
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By Phoenix.Sergee 2010-02-24 15:15:31
Well, I'm surprised to see that everyone pretty much behaved while I was asleep lolol.. :] I made this thread out of curiosity, to see who everyone was, but if it's turning into a friendly chit-chat place for the LGBT community.. that's fine too! :D I'm also loving the support from the none-gay FFXI community as well, /hurray!
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By Fairy.Evanthegai 2010-02-24 15:28:26
/yawn whered my lesbians go...
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By Shiva.Flionheart 2010-02-24 15:56:07
The only person I've seen acting childish in here Is Vegetto, but as long as admins keep it in check np there.
I'm surprised there is such a large gay community in FFXI, I know one person on Shiva and that's it.
All power to you guys ^^
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By Carbuncle.Jaffar 2010-02-24 16:07:08
I am on the carbuncle server, Jaffar is my name, send a tell if you wanna!
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By Lakshmi.Jaerik 2010-02-24 16:08:44
Actually, while gaming culture is extremely homophobic (XBox Live reports that 98% of uses of the word "gay" on their platform are as a generic pejorative), industry demographic studies have repeatedly shown that there is a considerably higher percentage of homosexual and bisexual gamers than the general population.
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By Phoenix.Sergee 2010-02-24 16:10:06
You would be surprised at how many of your friends are actually gay lolol, closet cases everywhere. :P:P I agree, but I try not to pay attention to people like that. :]
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By Phoenix.Sergee 2010-02-24 16:15:43
w00t! gogo Jaerik! It looks like were taking over the gaming industry, one platform at a time. :D
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By Gilgamesh.Alighieri 2010-02-24 16:18:09
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Either Gilgamesh is pretty straight or no gays do end game stuff here :( And don't trust that Astrida chick from the previous page...she /slaps me and calls me a hoe all the time!
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By Bahamut.Ryousuke 2010-02-24 16:23:52
\ Bi in Brighton
New favorite thread '---'*
Used to have a full 6 out LGBT in my previous endgame shell. ; ; 4/6 of the moved servers now. Blame Bahamut for being closed. I only know two others (not very well either) who are, on my server.
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By Asura.Daleterrence 2010-02-24 16:25:55
Shiva.Flionheart said: The only person I've seen acting childish in here Is Vegetto, but as long as admins keep it in check np there.
I'm surprised there is such a large gay community in FFXI, I know one person on Shiva and that's it.
All power to you guys ^^
I am abit set aback by the amount of people too. =o
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2010-02-24 16:29:21
Fenrir.Dramanue said: Bi-confused here. I'm a crosser in real life. o.o; I lean more towards straight, though. My server knew about this "status" a bit a few years ago, don't know if they do anymore, though. Well, I guess now they know again. Does anyone else use the plasticsurgeon plugin to change sex in game? I do. Hume f all the way. ^_^;
I knew about that Dramanue =) I heard it from a good friend of mine.
And there's a few gays on Fenrir that I know of.
Not going to post names, not sure if they want the whole server to know =P
But I myself am gay, which is common Knowledge to the people that know me on Fenrir =P.
P.S Oh and Vegetto to answer your question, I'm not really all that manly, but at the same time I'm not girly. You wouldn't be able to tell I was gay from the way I act.
As for the top or bottom part, I'm more of a top, but bottom doesn't bother me.
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By Bahamut.Ryousuke 2010-02-24 16:31:59
Just wondering,
Do you guys usually say something like "This offends me," or "Please don't use that word in this way" when partying/in linkshell/group situations in general when people use words like "gay" or "***" in a derogatory way?
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By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-02-24 16:33:38
Represent, Ryousuke.
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2010-02-24 16:33:42
Bahamut.Ryousuke said: Just wondering,
Do you guys usually say something like "This offends me," or "Please don't use that word in this way" when partying/in linkshell/group situations in general when people use words like "gay" or "***" in a derogatory way?
I don't get offended by words, for the fact that they are just words after all. They only have power over you when you let them.
Hell, I say ***, and gay in derogatory ways lol
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By Bahamut.Ryousuke 2010-02-24 16:38:40
Fenrir.Stiklelf said: Bahamut.Ryousuke said: Just wondering,
Do you guys usually say something like "This offends me," or "Please don't use that word in this way" when partying/in linkshell/group situations in general when people use words like "gay" or "***" in a derogatory way?
I don't get offended by words, for the fact that they are just words after all. They only have power over you when you let them.
Hell, I say ***, and gay in derogatory ways lol
Not exactly offended, but hey, you're giving us all a bad name by labelling that crappy player a part of our LGBT community :D
But at least that insult gets the message across quickly without having to try and explain some witty subtle jab.
(More love from Bahamut, yeaaaaah)
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By Bahamut.Stanflame 2010-02-24 16:38:55
Fenrir.Stiklelf said: Bahamut.Ryousuke said: Just wondering,
Do you guys usually say something like "This offends me," or "Please don't use that word in this way" when partying/in linkshell/group situations in general when people use words like "gay" or "***" in a derogatory way?
I don't get offended by words, for the fact that they are just words after all. They only have power over you when you let them.
Hell, I say ***, and gay in derogatory ways lol
little kids too teen thing to do....
By Izey 2010-02-24 16:39:59
Fairy.Kelvinclein said: I'm honest, i NEVER EVER meet any gay in my life.. i thought it was a myth lol. Asura.Daleterrence said: Asura.Shayka said: Asura.Daleterrence said: Fairy.Kelvinclein said: wow is this real? I mean I'm not gay, but hardly believe this thread..
How can you not believe it?
EDIT: Fairy.Evanthegai said: Imo there has been more idiotic threads...
This. ^^
/poke Hey you! =3
Hey Shay! =D
Fairy.Kelvinclein said: I'm honest, i NEVER EVER meet any gay in my life.. i thought it was a myth lol.
Wat? Someone is trollin'...
Phoenix.Sergee said: Indeed it is, :D someone had to do it, gogo LGBT! :] Unless.. a thread like this has already been posted & I'm not aware of it lolol o_o..
Don't think I've seen one.. And I'm always lurking to some degree..
Don't kill him just yet he can be telling the truth =Q
Some people allways gotta creep cuz of ignorance, Like in the South =X
Anywho, I know a few gay guys in Sylph but thats about it, when I say a few I mean like 4-5~
There used to be a LS what was it..... "GuysGoneWild."
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By Phoenix.Sergee 2010-02-24 16:40:01
Well if it's with random people, I'll just ignore it. But if I'm with friends and one of them slips up & says *** or whatever, I'll just /stare or use a </3 and they'll quickly apologize to me "sorry sergee, I didn't mean it" lol.. :] It all depends on the situation I guess, but most people say things like that out of habit.
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By Fenrir.Stiklelf 2010-02-24 16:43:33
Bahamut.Stanflame said: Fenrir.Stiklelf said: Bahamut.Ryousuke said: Just wondering,
Do you guys usually say something like "This offends me," or "Please don't use that word in this way" when partying/in linkshell/group situations in general when people use words like "gay" or "***" in a derogatory way?
I don't get offended by words, for the fact that they are just words after all. They only have power over you when you let them.
Hell, I say ***, and gay in derogatory ways lol
little kids too teen thing to do....
I don't understand what that means.
I don't let words hurt me, growing up in a family of two brother(10-11 years older) taught me to not take things to heart. IMO a word is just a word, I don't care how it's used.
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By Gilgamesh.Alighieri 2010-02-24 16:44:44
My ls leader says ***/*** like 10 times a day on vent but he also says all sorts of racist stuff too, kinda jokingly lol. It's never bothered me since I call stuff gay too out of habit from so many others doing it constantly.
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By Asura.Artemicion 2010-02-24 16:49:07
Nobody with the right mindset or general courtesy towards others would directly call a gay person a ***, nor would they call someone mentally challenged a retard.
However, we need these words to generally describe something undesired despite its connotation. IE: You couldn't get those concert tickets; that's gay. Or, your friend traded in their Prius for a Hummer; that's HELP I AM TRAPPED IN 2006 PLEASE SEND A TIME MACHINE.
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By Izey 2010-02-24 16:49:31
Haha, you ever flip the switch on the words like that?
I know guys @ work and when I think they do or say something "dumb," or I just plain ol don't agreee I would say... ewww you/thats mad "streight," All I hear is.... "HAAAAWT!!!!??, /em Speaks HiddenGayLanguage."
They just go off sayin a bunch of stuff I seriously cannot understand... but I belive it goes... ummm.... "Girl don't make me get up and tear out that gilda." Thats probly the only sentence I have understood when they got mad at me XD!
So anyway, have fun with the people who say "That's soo gay," and say... "ewww thats soo streight." that'll weird em out a little =D
By Izey 2010-02-24 16:49:56
Izey said: Haha, you ever flip the switch on the words like that?
I know guys @ work and when I think they do or say something "dumb," or I just plain ol don't agreee I would say... ewww you/thats mad "streight," All I hear is.... "HAAAAWT!!!!??, /em Speaks HiddenGayLanguage."
They just go off sayin a bunch of stuff I seriously cannot understand... but I belive it goes... ummm.... "Girl don't make me get up and tear out that gilda." Thats probly the only sentence I have understood when they got mad at me XD!
So anyway, have fun with the people who say "That's soo gay," and say... "ewww thats soo streight." that'll weird em out a little =D
Well... I'm not sure if it would work on streight people actually.... but I know it works on gays XD!
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By Bahamut.Ryousuke 2010-02-24 16:50:35
Mostly directing this at the ladies(severely lacking in this topic :<): any of you guys' significant others(b/gf/hubby/wife &c.), if you have them at the moment, play as well? Ever complain about how much time you spend ingame, or even on ffxiah? :D
By Izey 2010-02-24 16:52:49
Bahamut.Ryousuke said: Mostly directing this at the ladies(severely lacking in this topic :<): any of you guys' significant others(b/gf/hubby/wife &c.), if you have them at the moment, play as well? Ever complain about how much time you spend ingame, or even on ffxiah? :D
My girl does this all the time... then I get off and she goes "OMFG I GOT A PT FOR MY SCH YAY" -_-;
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By Bahamut.Ryousuke 2010-02-24 16:57:59
Izey said: My girl does this all the time... then I get off and she goes "OMFG I GOT A PT FOR MY SCH YAY" -_-;
Envyyy-I wish my girl would play but she said "never in a million years", even though two of her cousins play(and have been trying to get her to as well!) She says she'll get too addicted too quickly xD and that she can't join Bahamut anyway.
Extremely supportive, as much as she can be, though lol-smiles and nods and tries to absorb what she can without driving herself mad, when I talk at her XD
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.
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