Is it cool going to a gay club if you're straight? I've been and I had to deny guys on me, you know not in a mean way or anything, but does that give me bad rep or what?
Is it cool going to a gay club if you're straight? I've been and I had to deny guys on me, you know not in a mean way or anything, but does that give me bad rep or what?
Is it cool going to a gay club if you're straight? I've been and I had to deny guys on me, you know not in a mean way or anything, but does that give me bad rep or what?
I wouldn't say it does.
Asura.Artemicion said:
Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said:
Is it cool going to a gay club if you're straight? I've been and I had to deny guys on me, you know not in a mean way or anything, but does that give me bad rep or what?
Yeah I was just asking because last week my friends and I made a quick decision to go to a gay bar because our friend wasn't 21 to go where we wanted. It was actually lotsa fun in there, but I had to do some mob-dodging lol.
Lol, I always say to go where you have fun, whether you're the clubs "intended audience" or not, as long as you like the place and want to go there, go lol and if you get hit on, hell it happens anywhere, you politely turn 'em down and go back to having fun and on a side note, I need to stop staring at your avi.
There are some people who are completely uncomfortable with associating or being around other homosexuals, in your instance, a gay bar. To me, it's not really a "gay bar," but a place where the majority of the people are gay. I've had straight guy friends say they go to those for the music and all around general fact that yes, gay bars do tend to be a little more entertaining than regular. I agree with Art though. As long as it's in the nature of having a good time, go where you want. If the guys can't respect your orientation like you're respecting theirs, then there's a problem.
Imo, the problem with the majority of the gay community is that they don't know when to stop. I'm often times very open minded and joke around with my guy friends a lot, but that's all it is and they know it. Where as other's will try to force themselves and their beliefs upon others. Those type of people give us bad names.
Yeah I definitely do it just to have fun and you are right the music is usually way better hahaha. And yeah like you said I don't have any problems at all until it starts getting taken too far.
Where as other's will try to force themselves and their beliefs upon others. Those type of people give us bad names.
I wonder if thats not a result of their upbringing. Its a bad thing no matter how they learned to be that way though and unfortunately people see people like that and thats all they remember, without realizing, not everyone is like that.
Yeah I definitely do it just to have fun and you are right the music is usually way better hahaha. And yeah like you said I don't have any problems at all until it starts getting taken too far.
Yeah I definitely do it just to have fun and you are right the music is usually way better hahaha. And yeah like you said I don't have any problems at all until it starts getting taken too far.
Even we don't like it. Lol
Nobody likes people like that lol.... well theres always someone haha!
I wonder if thats not a result of their upbringing. Its a bad thing no matter how they learned to be that way though and unfortunately people see people like that and thats all they remember, without realizing, not everyone is like that.
Need for attention? I'm not quite sure. As much as I like attention and giving it, there needs to be a line and it needs to be drawn. Lol Some people will understand that after a couple slap of the wrists, but does it honestly even need to be done?
Btw, hai Shay! Make a Besieged start, I want ISP and to cap my healing and Enhancing!
I wonder if thats not a result of their upbringing. Its a bad thing no matter how they learned to be that way though and unfortunately people see people like that and thats all they remember, without realizing, not everyone is like that.
Need for attention? I'm not quite sure. As much as I like attention and giving it, there needs to be a line and it needs to be drawn. Lol Some people will understand that after a couple slap of the wrists, but does it honestly even need to be done?
Btw, hai Shay! Make a Besieged start, I want ISP and to cap my healing and Enhancing!
Ohai, you finally noticed me D: I'd make one start if I could, but I lack that power ><
Ohai, you finally noticed me D: I'd make one start if I could, but I lack that power ><
Lol I mainly lurked this thread and never felt the reason to reply on things until just now. I try to stay out of arguments like this and subjects of the like. I tend to get myself in trouble. Lol
Ohai, you finally noticed me D: I'd make one start if I could, but I lack that power ><
Lol I mainly lurked this thread and never felt the reason to reply on things until just now. I try to stay out of arguments like this and subjects of the like. I tend to get myself in trouble. Lol
Oh psh, as if you didn't like the trouble =p I'd say this thread is safe enough from any trouble, unless a random troll comes in or something.
Hey I know this is off-topic but can you guys tell me what alcohol to get that has the best taste lol. Idc what people say I'll puss out and drink something that doesn't taste as bad
Oh psh, as if you didn't like the trouble =p I'd say this thread is safe enough from any trouble, unless a random troll comes in or something.
I'm honestly surprised one hasn't. Homosexuality tends to be a very hit-and-miss subject.
I'm surprised too *knocks on wood to avoiding jinxing it* But as many people are on this forum, you'd have expected issues to come up the second this was posted, though I'm glad its been peaceful and hope it continues to stay that way.
Hey I know this is off-topic but can you guys tell me what alcohol to get that has the best taste lol. Idc what people say I'll puss out and drink something that doesn't taste as bad
Lmao, I favor Vodka, but if you want something that doesn't taste bad, get a flavored drink. I prefer the sweet fruit flavors for many alcohols [like rum for instance].
Just curious to see how many of us actually play FFXI. **Now, let's try to keep this clean, please don't respond if you have nothing nice to say.** :] Don't be shy, speak up! :D
EDIT: You don't have to be gay to post in here, if you want to be apart of our conversations.. feel free to join in! Don't be shy, we don't bite.. well some of us do! :] Anyyyyyways~! This thread has become a home to many from the LGBT community & even some from the straight community who are open minded and enjoy chit-chatting with us, :] so let's keep it drama free, we deserve a place where we can be ourselves without being made fun of/harassed.