Cerberus.Gillesjboulon said:
»yet, i did this years ago to secure a personal web server
No you didn't. You can sputter and rant, but you didn't teleport bits from CF infrastructure to your personal infrastructure.
<User> --SSL-- <CF Proxy> --no encryption-- <Web Server>
It's that second half that becomes the problem, and if you struggled with something as simple as openssl and httpd, then there is no way you figured out network adjacency, site to site VPNs, or the various other tricks to handle that intermediate step.
No what you did was likely way worse, you had all the web traffic from the CF proxy to your personal web server traverse the public internet unsecure.