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 Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:04:18
Cerberus.Arebella said: »Cerberus.Arebella said: »Cerberus.Arebella said: »She wants to go out wit a christian yet wants to go around bangin people while shes with someone? lulz. It's very complicated and just... ugh. Glad I'm out of that relationship. Good, thats seriously *** up. If any guy i was with asked to bang some chick and have it be okay, if he told me, he'd have bloody red foot mark on his *** and hes skidding on the curb of my house before he could say "I'm sor--" Eh.. it works for some people... I know of a couple that has an open marraige... they love each other but they also love to bang other people too lol... to each their own... /nod. I undestand having urges and wanting that sense of excitement of getting to "know" someone new, but i think if you REALLY love someone then that's something that you should only share with them. It's a powerful emotional and physical connection, not something to go passing around like a flier. I know when i experienced it with another person after me and my ex broke i felt a huge break inside me, actually made me cry tbh. /Shrug, i believe it was the connection breaking but thats me. I understand the feeling all too well... From experience though it seems that some people just never feel that way or haven't met anyone that can make them feel that way... Some just want other things... Thats why I think its important for when things start to get serious you sit down with them and kinda figure out those things... figure out if it could even progress to that level... no matter how much we want something if the other person isn't feeling it too there's just no way to force it...
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2012-06-19 16:04:20
Uhg... just realized I've been sleeping on and off since about 11am. x.x
That is all, sorry for interrupting the important conversation. Spath!
/bucket of ice water You keep that bucket away from me! D:
Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:04:51
I've been broken up with something along the lines of "you're the best guy I've ever met and I could see myself with you in the future, but I want to sleep around with other guys to see what I'm missing. If you really love me you'll wait for me." lol. HAd she never had another b/f before you? To what she described as "not a real boyfriend". We were 18-19 at the time? "Not a real boyfriend" to me is holding hands in the cafeteria lunchline. :/ I just assumed it meant she never banged anyone else... lol...
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Lakshmi.Flavin
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Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:05:06
Uhg... just realized I've been sleeping on and off since about 11am. x.x That is all, sorry for interrupting the important conversation. Spath! /bucket of ice water You keep that bucket away from me! D: Drink it before you pass out again!
 Cerberus.Eliane
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 1635
By Cerberus.Eliane 2012-06-19 16:05:36
This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past.
That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else..
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Bismarck.Magnuss
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By Bismarck.Magnuss 2012-06-19 16:06:48
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2012-06-19 16:08:38
Uhg... just realized I've been sleeping on and off since about 11am. x.x That is all, sorry for interrupting the important conversation. Spath! /bucket of ice water You keep that bucket away from me! D: Drink it before you pass out again! I've drank so much water today it's not even funny. >.<;
Mag you ***! lol
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Cerberus.Arebella
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Posts: 2532
By Cerberus.Arebella 2012-06-19 16:08:56
Agreed, Flav. I was uber loyal and committed to the guy for four years, he had been my best friend and someone i wanted to marry, so when i stepped out of that protective circle and was with someone else, it crushed something inside me. It surprisingly didn't hurt, it just felt like a change inside me.
Made awkward explaining that to the guy though xD "OMG! Are you okay? Why are you crying??" "I DONT KNOOWWWWW /sob" >_>
Meh, anyway, like you guys said to each their own.
But.. I couldnt be serious with someone while staring at some new guy's junk every few nights
Cerberus.Arebella
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Posts: 2532
By Cerberus.Arebella 2012-06-19 16:11:03
This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past.
That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. /nod I remember that :/ Suckssssssssss SO much.
Sucked even more when i found out that he took the same girl to prom while he were trying to be together again. >_>
I'd say "It's just prom" but if you ever saw what goes on in there...
Even "normal" dancing is like having dry sex with a fancy dress on
Bismarck.Magnuss
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Posts: 28615
By Bismarck.Magnuss 2012-06-19 16:11:20
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 Caitsith.Zahrah
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Game: FFXI
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-06-19 16:11:39
I've been broken up with something along the lines of "you're the best guy I've ever met and I could see myself with you in the future, but I want to sleep around with other guys to see what I'm missing. If you really love me you'll wait for me." lol. HAd she never had another b/f before you? To what she described as "not a real boyfriend". We were 18-19 at the time? "Not a real boyfriend" to me is holding hands in the cafeteria lunchline. :/ I just assumed it meant she never banged anyone else... lol...
Ahhh...I assumed so, but what will her dad say now? LOL!
For shame!
Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:14:16
Cerberus.Arebella said: »Agreed, Flav. I was uber loyal and committed to the guy for four years, he had been my best friend and someone i wanted to marry, so when i stepped out of that protective circle and was with someone else, it crushed something inside me. It surprisingly didn't hurt, it just felt like a change inside me. Made awkward explaining that to the guy though xD "OMG! Are you okay? Why are you crying??" "I DONT KNOOWWWWW /sob" >_> Meh, anyway, like you guys said to each their own. But.. I couldnt be serious with someone while staring at some new guy's junk every few nights Something does change for sure... at the time it seems like something has broken yeah but in time it starts to feel like something else... I have found it is possible to feel that way again though...
Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:16:14
This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past. That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. I try to look at those times as good times... for me at least it was all really good until the day it ended... I don't really look back anymore and feel sad or depressed... more just know that my life was better for the time I had spent with her... and now my life is just taking a different path than hers...
Cerberus.Eliane
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 1635
By Cerberus.Eliane 2012-06-19 16:16:47
Cerberus.Arebella said: »This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past.
That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. /nod I remember that :/ Suckssssssssss SO much.
Sucked even more when i found out that he took the same girl to prom while he were trying to be together again. >_>
I'd say "It's just prom" but if you ever saw what goes on in there...
Even "normal" dancing is like having dry sex with a fancy dress on
Prom is more like "Singles night" than anything else, even in the UK, the amount of girls and guys you see going home together than you know only just met on that night is insane.
Its a lot more than just an "act", even being something physical, its the emotional side attached to it that not a lot of people seem to comprehend
Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:17:46
I've been broken up with something along the lines of "you're the best guy I've ever met and I could see myself with you in the future, but I want to sleep around with other guys to see what I'm missing. If you really love me you'll wait for me." lol. HAd she never had another b/f before you? To what she described as "not a real boyfriend". We were 18-19 at the time? "Not a real boyfriend" to me is holding hands in the cafeteria lunchline. :/ I just assumed it meant she never banged anyone else... lol... Ahhh...I assumed so, but what will her dad say now? LOL! For shame! I figure if someone uses their christianity as an excuse and then says they want to bang others... it doesn't have much to do with their faith...
There are some big hurdles to face though... one of the biggest is kids... How you want to raise them and the like...
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Cerberus.Arebella
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By Cerberus.Arebella 2012-06-19 16:17:49
Haha, not here, Prom like was a sad excuse to bang ur date in public
 Siren.Mosin
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Game: FFXI
By Siren.Mosin 2012-06-19 16:19:08
It sucks getting old.
I used to feel ways about things.
It all seems rather silly & blase' now.
huh.
Caitsith.Zahrah
Serveur: Caitsith
Game: FFXI
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-06-19 16:19:35
Cerberus.Arebella said: »This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past.
That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. /nod I remember that :/ Suckssssssssss SO much.
Sucked even more when i found out that he took the same girl to prom while he were trying to be together again. >_>
I'd say "It's just prom" but if you ever saw what goes on in there...
Even "normal" dancing is like having dry sex with a fancy dress on
Prom is more like "Singles night" than anything else, even in the UK, the amount of girls and guys you see going home together than you know only just met on that night is insane.
Its a lot more than just an "act", even being something physical, its the emotional side attached to it that not a lot of people seem to comprehend
Not sure how it goes in the rest of the US, but the after-party, the weekend, and "Senior Skip Day" that following Monday is more fun than the dance itself.
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Game: FFXI
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By Shiva.Spathaian 2012-06-19 16:19:43
>.>; Prom was nothing like I expected last year, that's for sure.
Cerberus.Eliane
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 1635
By Cerberus.Eliane 2012-06-19 16:19:57
This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past. That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. I try to look at those times as good times... for me at least it was all really good until the day it ended... I don't really look back anymore and feel sad or depressed... more just know that my life was better for the time I had spent with her... and now my life is just taking a different path than hers...
Thats the thing, you think about those times, then that is the emotional bit that hits you really hard, at least it did to me.
I suppose we all have our own way of dealing with those things, life does go on, but it takes a long time to get over these things :/
Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:20:34
Never went to prom and glad I didn't!!!
The emotional side is hard to get... a lot of people don't look at it as sharing something or they just aren't at that phase in their life yet... One of the biggest reasons for break ups I think are people being different places emotionally... I've also seen a lot of people get hurt because they went a little too fast because of what they thought was love... ends up the other was just in it for the physical part of it all...
Bismarck.Magnuss
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Posts: 28615
By Bismarck.Magnuss 2012-06-19 16:21:18
Thank you so much for using that term the right way. I'm surrounded by people that use blase` replacing blah. Like, "Okay, so I had to go to the DMV to get some stuff and blase` blase` blase`." It's like nails on a chalkboard to me.
Cerberus.Eliane
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 1635
By Cerberus.Eliane 2012-06-19 16:22:41
Never went to prom and glad I didn't!!!
The emotional side is hard to get... a lot of people don't look at it as sharing something or they just aren't at that phase in their life yet... One of the biggest reasons for break ups I think are people being different places emotionally... I've also seen a lot of people get hurt because they went a little too fast because of what they thought was love... ends up the other was just in it for the physical part of it all...
This was my problem a lot of the time :/
Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:23:19
This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past. That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. I try to look at those times as good times... for me at least it was all really good until the day it ended... I don't really look back anymore and feel sad or depressed... more just know that my life was better for the time I had spent with her... and now my life is just taking a different path than hers... Thats the thing, you think about those times, then that is the emotional bit that hits you really hard, at least it did to me. I suppose we all have our own way of dealing with those things, life does go on, but it takes a long time to get over these things :/ It can... and from what I hear sometimes it never stops hitting you like that... It took me quite a bit to move on like I have and I'm pretty sure then end for me was different from a lot of you so that might make it a bit different in how I eventually coped with it...
Life goes on no matter what for sure... whether you get over it or not is up in the air... I think it's an important experience if you do have to face it...
Caitsith.Zahrah
Serveur: Caitsith
Game: FFXI
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-06-19 16:24:32
Thank you so much for using that term the right way. I'm surrounded by people that use blase` replacing blah. Like, "Okay, so I had to go to the DMV to get some stuff and blase` blase` blase`." It's like nails on a chalkboard to me.
WHAT?!? That would irk me too. Rubs me the wrong way just reading that actually.
/gnashes teeth
Cerberus.Eliane
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 1635
By Cerberus.Eliane 2012-06-19 16:25:50
This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past. That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. I try to look at those times as good times... for me at least it was all really good until the day it ended... I don't really look back anymore and feel sad or depressed... more just know that my life was better for the time I had spent with her... and now my life is just taking a different path than hers... Thats the thing, you think about those times, then that is the emotional bit that hits you really hard, at least it did to me. I suppose we all have our own way of dealing with those things, life does go on, but it takes a long time to get over these things :/ It can... and from what I hear sometimes it never stops hitting you like that... It took me quite a bit to move on like I have and I'm pretty sure then end for me was different from a lot of you so that might make it a bit different in how I eventually coped with it...
Life goes on no matter what for sure... whether you get over it or not is up in the air... I think it's an important experience if you do have to face it...
Thats true. I just wish i was one of the lucky ones that had that childhood sweetheart and went on to live rest of their lives with them.
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Bismarck.Magnuss
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By Bismarck.Magnuss 2012-06-19 16:26:29
You're lucky you haven't experienced it.
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Caitsith.Zahrah
Serveur: Caitsith
Game: FFXI
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-06-19 16:28:56
You're lucky you haven't experienced it.
Lakshmi.Flavin
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Game: FFXI
Posts: 18466
By Lakshmi.Flavin 2012-06-19 16:29:18
This conversation is so depressing...just makes me think of the past. That feeling you get when you find out someone you once loved has just "connected" with someone else.. I try to look at those times as good times... for me at least it was all really good until the day it ended... I don't really look back anymore and feel sad or depressed... more just know that my life was better for the time I had spent with her... and now my life is just taking a different path than hers... Thats the thing, you think about those times, then that is the emotional bit that hits you really hard, at least it did to me. I suppose we all have our own way of dealing with those things, life does go on, but it takes a long time to get over these things :/ It can... and from what I hear sometimes it never stops hitting you like that... It took me quite a bit to move on like I have and I'm pretty sure then end for me was different from a lot of you so that might make it a bit different in how I eventually coped with it... Life goes on no matter what for sure... whether you get over it or not is up in the air... I think it's an important experience if you do have to face it... Thats true. I just wish i was one of the lucky ones that had that childhood sweetheart and went on to live rest of their lives with them. I'm a little jealous of my brother in that way... He's been with his wife since HS and they recently got married last year... I know it's cliche but I'm sure you will find someone that will make you feel that way again soon enough and then you'll be glad you waited until then :)
Caitsith.Zahrah
Serveur: Caitsith
Game: FFXI
By Caitsith.Zahrah 2012-06-19 16:38:36
Must...not...wander...into...serious...threads!!!
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Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
http://www.nationstates.net/nation=royal_kingdom_of_ni
Continuation from: http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/topic/2873/ffxiah-linkshell/732/#150486
Update: Sorry Eternaltriumph, too much has changed D: (Page 698)
Eternaltriumph said: Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
One Year Anniversary!!!Asura.Ludoggy said: Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
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Fenrir.Scragg said: Code Rowland 29488 2007-06-24 16:06:00
Ludoggy 26597 2009-02-25 22:31:23
Flionheart 22174 2008-11-17 14:28:15
Krizz 22085 2007-06-30 15:22:38
Haseyo 20875 2009-01-12 15:55:51
Dameshi 19807 2009-02-17 10:29:14
Urial 18636 2008-02-09 01:15:03
Spence 18475 2009-05-04 11:26:27
Kalyna 15001 2010-01-21 11:40:04
Rydiya 13469 2008-05-16 05:24:33
Alyria 12656 2007-10-23 10:58:35
Tigerwoods 10807 2007-03-14 21:10:43
Enternius 10382 2007-08-10 04:14:29
Slipispsycho 10072 2008-09-05 08:56:34
Rumaha 10000 2009-02-20 13:28:03
Kojo 9060 2007-06-30 17:46:02
Sevourn 8567 2009-02-10 00:10:20
Cheyne 8527 2007-04-27 12:27:54
Mabrook 8356 2008-07-01 00:53:38
Marzbarz 7723 2010-01-10 14:12:5
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