So uh, I go to work, come home, do adult ***, play game or do hobbies, go to bed. If it's a day off, I either stay home (which is 90% of the time) or go visit one of my homeboys in a town I used to live in. That's basically my life in a nutshell right now.
Soon it will be my birthday, which is nice...but guess what comes exactly a week after, though. ._.
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Josiahkf said: » Quetzacoatl said: » So uh, I go to work, come home, do adult ***, play game or do hobbies, go to bed. If it's a day off, I either stay home (which is 90% of the time) or go visit one of my homeboys in a town I used to live in. That's basically my life in a nutshell right now. Soon it will be my birthday, which is nice...but guess what comes exactly a week after, though. ._. Or moreso just feel like there is an emptiness etc Plus, I live in a city that's been ranked as one of the worst for dating opportunities. It's a city within the rust belt, too. Josiahkf said: » Quetzacoatl said: » Josiahkf said: » Quetzacoatl said: » So uh, I go to work, come home, do adult ***, play game or do hobbies, go to bed. If it's a day off, I either stay home (which is 90% of the time) or go visit one of my homeboys in a town I used to live in. That's basically my life in a nutshell right now. Soon it will be my birthday, which is nice...but guess what comes exactly a week after, though. ._. Or moreso just feel like there is an emptiness etc Plus, I live in a city that's been ranked as one of the worst for dating opportunities. It's a city within the rust belt, too. Well, I usually have to put in $500/month (except december) for an IRA I got set up for, and...it's both a blessing and a curse. It's retirement, but with my current job, which has varied hours on what seems like a random work week, I'm more or less breaking even. Not only would the idea of finding a second job be a pain in the ***, but coordinating schedules would be an utter nightmare for me. But according to my mother, I'm supposedly going to be getting some additional financial support- either through disability or...a personal instance I'd like to keep private for the time being. So right now, Goals are practically stifled until a good opportunity comes along. We specifically kept you out of this thread because, knowing you, you would be topic banned quicker than you can say "boo...."
DAMN IT KOJO, AT LEAST WAIT UNTIL I FINISH TYPING THIS BEFORE YOU TOPIC BAN HIM!!!
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Asura.Vyre said: » Met a woman in FFXIV back in last January. Been friends since, met her in person for lunch. Didn't feel like anything clicked, but she's attractive and easy to get along with. She's just hot and cold towards me. Sometimes she won't respond to messages at all, and then other times she wants to do everything with me. I'll see where it goes, though it doesn't seem like it's going anywhere. I know quite a number of other women that I'm incredibly drawn towards, but the rub is generally that they are already happily taken. Idk, sometimes it feels like the whole relationship/romance thing just isn't something I'm going to excel at. Just general guy frustrations I guess. Nothing entertaining like Schizm. And sorry to hear that Volkom T_T Oh tbis one's easy. You are her backup-boyfriend or plan-B. If whomever she is seeing gives her problems she rings one of her backups to feel valuable and attractive. She's not interested in a relationship with you but the easy validation is always welcome. Josiahkf said: » How many years until retirement? 
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[282 days between previous and next post]Do you think there is only one "love of your life", that every person only gets one shot at that big love? I'm not asking if it's possible to fall in love again, obviously it is, but if one can love again someone with the same intensity as that deep love eventually; or if all others will never compare to it and will always be inferior.
There have been many deep, intense loves in my life. So no Seha, I couldn't come close to thinking that.
I think it's a matter of attitude. You can if you deep down want to or at least are willing to since logically it's quite possible to find someone better especially since they get bonus points for actually being there... but emotions care less about surface reason and more about deeply held beliefs, assumptions, and expectations
Phoenix.Sehachan said: » Do you think there is only one "love of your life", that every person only gets one shot at that big love? I'm not asking if it's possible to fall in love again, obviously it is, but if one can love again someone with the same intensity as that deep love eventually; or if all others will never compare to it and will always be inferior. 
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Just don't take an interest in someone who wants to start love triangles and use two possible lovers to torment each other for their own amusement. That kinda sucks.
Especially when you have mutual friends so you keep seeing each other. Anna Ruthven said: » Just don't take an interest in someone who wants to start love triangles and use two possible lovers to torment each other for their own amusement. That kinda sucks. Especially when you have mutual friends so you keep seeing each other. Triangles? I spent decades with 3 or 4 ongoing, deep, wonderful, meaningful, relationships at once. Garuda.Chanti said: » Anna Ruthven said: » Just don't take an interest in someone who wants to start love triangles and use two possible lovers to torment each other for their own amusement. That kinda sucks. Especially when you have mutual friends so you keep seeing each other. Triangles? I spent decades with 3 or 4 ongoing, deep, wonderful, meaningful, relationships at once. Anna Ruthven said: » Just don't take an interest in someone who wants to start love triangles and use two possible lovers to torment each other for their own amusement. That kinda sucks. Especially when you have mutual friends so you keep seeing each other. clearlyamule said: » Anna Ruthven said: » Just don't take an interest in someone who wants to start love triangles and use two possible lovers to torment each other for their own amusement. That kinda sucks. Especially when you have mutual friends so you keep seeing each other. Yeah, pretty amusing. Lol |
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