Well it's been a few months, and he eventually married the chick (despite everything she was told) and he ended up [or at this point at least seems to be the same typical behavior] he basically left his wife back at home hundreds of miles away to come 'see his daughter' which me and my wife know (we know him well enough to know, coupled with the things the wife says, it's pretty typical MB behavior) basically means he came back to bang his ex, who he also has a daughter with.
This is the part that I start to give a ***.. He sends ME a text, and says he's in town for a few days, basically like he wants to go back to being friends.. It's important [at least to the story or why I'm so bothered] that you understand we really were like brothers for a very long time.. He was much more than a friend to me.. So I tell him "I'm up now if you wanna stop by" he replies with "I'm with my daughter right now, I'll stop by later" I let him know wife won't be off til 3 since we're all like a little family and I assume he'd want to see her as much as me.. and he says it'll be way later, like 9 when his daughter goes to bed.. He doesn't' end up coming. It turns into "I'll come the next day" and he doesn't end up doing it.
So now days after he's been back 'home' (for however long that lasts) I send a text "Nice of you to stop by, you should stop by again next time you're in town" to which I get "***..... I forgot"..
It's just a really shitty day when you realize one of you rlongest and closest friends puts a 100's mile booty call over you for the whole weekend.. I'm just angry and women level upset with him...After all I've given him and done for him, he can't even stop by when he's in the same damn town, for 5 minutes.. He's supposed to be one of my closest friends.
I don't even want to care about it, but I do.. I care about it a great goddamned deal. I guess that only makes it worse, I give way more of a ***than he does.
Also it took this long for me to explain it, because I didn't want to have to try and remember and type up all that, I was trying to find the post. I had plans to say it much, much earlier.
Well it's been a few months, and he eventually married the chick (despite everything she was told) and he ended up [or at this point at least seems to be the same typical behavior] he basically left his wife back at home hundreds of miles away to come 'see his daughter' which me and my wife know (we know him well enough to know, coupled with the things the wife says, it's pretty typical MB behavior) basically means he came back to bang his ex, who he also has a daughter with.
This is the part that I start to give a ***.. He sends ME a text, and says he's in town for a few days, basically like he wants to go back to being friends.. It's important [at least to the story or why I'm so bothered] that you understand we really were like brothers for a very long time.. He was much more than a friend to me.. So I tell him "I'm up now if you wanna stop by" he replies with "I'm with my daughter right now, I'll stop by later" I let him know wife won't be off til 3 since we're all like a little family and I assume he'd want to see her as much as me.. and he says it'll be way later, like 9 when his daughter goes to bed.. He doesn't' end up coming. It turns into "I'll come the next day" and he doesn't end up doing it.
So now days after he's been back 'home' (for however long that lasts) I send a text "Nice of you to stop by, you should stop by again next time you're in town" to which I get "***..... I forgot"..
It's just a really shitty day when you realize one of you rlongest and closest friends puts a 100's mile booty call over you for the whole weekend.. I'm just angry and women level upset with him...After all I've given him and done for him, he can't even stop by when he's in the same damn town, for 5 minutes.. He's supposed to be one of my closest friends.
I don't even want to care about it, but I do.. I care about it a great goddamned deal. I guess that only makes it worse, I give way more of a ***than he does.
Also it took this long for me to explain it, because I didn't want to have to try and remember and type up all that, I was trying to find the post. I had plans to say it much, much earlier.
we can fight our desires, oooooh, but when we start making fires,
we get ever so hot, ooooh, whether we like it or not,
they say we can love who we trust, ooooooh, but what is love without lust?
two hearts with accurate devotions, oooooh, and what are feelings without emotion?
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.
