Yea I'm sure the only way I get annoying and make someone else choose constantly is when it comes to food. I am an EXTREMELY picky eater, making it so that I have a very limited selection of food I usually think about eating. Thus when it comes to food I tend to lay it on other people because there is a good chance I will attempt to suggest the same 5 things over and over and over again until you hate me. :x
Side Note: I've watched that Morgan Freeman video like 5 times now and I can't stop laughing. XP
Ooooo. For that I'd give them choices of what to pick, or let them pick and just not eat anything, or try to find something you like on the menu. @@;
While I can see where you'd come from with this, you must be paranoid when someone's just being nice to you or something o_O
I might have become paranoid because of recent events, but the idea still holds true.
Nice guys are typically out to satisfy themselves, not others. They want love so they can feel good/happy/whatever, not so the other person can feel good/happy/whatever.
Alpha's are out to satisfy others?
Someone has to since the beta's seem to fail at it.
Yea I'm sure the only way I get annoying and make someone else choose constantly is when it comes to food. I am an EXTREMELY picky eater, making it so that I have a very limited selection of food I usually think about eating. Thus when it comes to food I tend to lay it on other people because there is a good chance I will attempt to suggest the same 5 things over and over and over again until you hate me. :x
Side Note: I've watched that Morgan Freeman video like 5 times now and I can't stop laughing. XP
Ooooo. For that I'd give them choices of what to pick, or let them pick and just not eat anything, or try to find something you like on the menu. @@;
Essentially what I do, either I'll not eat anything and wait till I get home or something and make my own meager meal, or I'll make sure I pay for my own meal and pick it apart to no end, that way I don't feel bad wasting their money on food I eat maybe half of if I'm lucky. lmao I really need to eat a larger variety of food.
This is a pretty big issue for me. I've been quite a pushover for most, if not all of my life. Thinking for myself, I'm not sure if that's an issue or not. But I do hate being asked to choose something to do because I honestly can't ever decide what exactly I want. In which case I'm likely to omit my vote or simply ask for the other person to decide instead. >.<
:< Yeah, you should grow a spine (no offense!), I'm not sure how, but do it! I know it's possible to be born spineless then grow one. On that note, this might not be you since you've stated you're a pushover, but it's completely possible to just be 'easy-going'. I don't usually pick what to do/where to go unless I'm like really in the mood to do something/eat something. If I actually have no opinion I'll just say you can pick something. If they can't pick something out of indecisiveness or whatever, I'm completely capable of picking something though. Sometimes I'll even do, "anything but this this and this" because the most obnoxious thing ever is to be with someone without an opinion, then you give an idea and they're like "no I don't wanna." I try to not be that guy.
I can understand I need to grow a spine, but what you said does seem a lot like me. I'm extremely easy-going, especially when I'm with friends. I have fun just seeing other people having fun a lot of the time. That being said everything else in that post seems pretty damn close to me if not right on the dot. :x
HOW DARE YOU SNEER AT ME!!!!!!
I'm slowly growing out of it though, mostly because I'm more willing to try food now cause I know I need to eat healthier and because when a pretty lady suggests something to me and then buys it for me (usually stating I don't eat enough.) I can't just say no. :x lmao Free food for poor college students! WEEEE lmao
HOW DARE YOU SNEER AT ME!!!!!!
I'm slowly growing out of it though, mostly because I'm more willing to try food now cause I know I need to eat healthier and because when a pretty lady suggests something to me and then buys it for me (usually stating I don't eat enough.) I can't just say no. :x lmao Free food for poor college students! WEEEE lmao
What I'm saying is that girls shouldn't have to earn equality. There's more girls in this world than guys, and nature would tell us that girls are supposed to be the dominant gender. Obviously it's different for humanity, but I don't treat girls any differently than I would anyone else. Everyone's just a human being to me.
This sort of came up in a cultural differences discussion a while ago, albeit in a more general way. I'm not saying girls have to do extra work to earn equal status, but I am saying that they need to "do work" rather than simply expect me to provide, pamper, and generally bust my *** for them if they want to be treated as an equal.
Lay's Baked BBQ chips are stupidly delicious. WHY must they be so good! ;;
I have to agree with you there I could eat those all the time lol.
what about the chedder with sour cream baked lay's? you keep eating them the whole time thinking to yourself, i can have more because they are baked. =)
You know, Alphas might be the "take what I want" types, but they sure as hell can take care of what they want, when they get it! Where as betas will beat around the bush, make you guess, chase them down, etc. Then they don't know what the hell to do with what they got. :(
HOW DARE YOU SNEER AT ME!!!!!!
I'm slowly growing out of it though, mostly because I'm more willing to try food now cause I know I need to eat healthier and because when a pretty lady suggests something to me and then buys it for me (usually stating I don't eat enough.) I can't just say no. :x lmao Free food for poor college students! WEEEE lmao
Don't feel bad. I eat like a 6 year old.
As long as you're trying to expand your pallet. That's okay. (Directed at both of you.)
HOW DARE YOU SNEER AT ME!!!!!!
I'm slowly growing out of it though, mostly because I'm more willing to try food now cause I know I need to eat healthier and because when a pretty lady suggests something to me and then buys it for me (usually stating I don't eat enough.) I can't just say no. :x lmao Free food for poor college students! WEEEE lmao
Don't feel bad. I eat like a 6 year old.
As long as you're trying to expand your pallet. That's okay. (Directed at both of you.)
Not everyone likes deer sausage, lady. SORRY! /giggles
Lay's Baked BBQ chips are stupidly delicious. WHY must they be so good! ;;
I have to agree with you there I could eat those all the time lol.
what about the chedder with sour cream baked lay's? you keep eating them the whole time thinking to yourself, i can have more because they are baked. =)
Exactly! I feel all healthy when I eat them because they're baked, even though I know they are still not exactly a healthy choice. So good! So tempting! Flavin knows what I mean, see?
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.
