I think the issue here is less that we've not had damage like this before, but more that it's never been this widespread. I would tend to agree this will be a more normal occurrence but likely on a smaller scale.
The only source of information I had for 3 days was my CB radio, I checked the wx radio every 4-5 hours and they would list off records of river and lake heights. All records were broken by this storm but you'd be surprised how close the figures were. The difference here is that every record everywhere was broken, the impact was more widespread. Fred did catastrophic damage to Pisgah National Forest and areas of town for instance, but most areas were not as heavily hit across such a wide area. It was more isolated, but Helene just wrecked everything in a wide area.
One of the most terrifying things I heard them say, and wish I had recorded, was "Lake Lure dam is imminently failing, if you are downstream of Lake Lure dam seek higher ground immediately". This went on to list just about every dam in the area, to say it was about to fail and to get to higher ground. Thankfully they didn't fail but Duke power opened all the gates and everyone was told to gtfo immediately. Frustratingly, they and just about everyone else tell you to "go to
http://www.blahblahblah.com" for more info....but no one had any cell or internet service...If I did I wouldn't be listening to the CB radio like it's *** 1950
We had to clear out my Dad's house today. During the storm he called me at about 5a to tell me a tree hit the house and knocked out his kitchen. I lost cell signal about 30min later and didn't hear from him until I got him out around 5pm. I told him to turn the gas/electric off and shelter in the basement, but even in that short span the place was a mess. We had heard FEMA is starting to evaluate homes on Friday so we wanted to get some of the important stuff out and it was insane how bad the damage became across a few days. It seems the tree has settled in more and the mold growth has become unbearable. We're having similar issues with mold due to the lack of power, our dehumidifers can't run, and I'm fully expecting insurance to do jack ***. Small problems compared to what I've seen so far, we're so fortunate. We're supposed to have power back by tomorrow PM, Duke reported >10k power poles down.
One hard part in the aftermath is going to be housing people. We already had a massive housing crisis due to a lot of factors: post-COVID remote work, vacation homes, STRs, desirable place to live, and issues with building due to topography and restrictions building near national forests. This is going to compound that problem considerably. I have friends who lost their house and they probably won't be able to find anywhere to live.
FEMA and local gov't is reporting no gas shortage, which is horse ***. I don't know what planet they live on but it's been short since the day before the storm. After, no stations had power and only Marathon was back up a day later. Once they opened there were 6+ hour lines for gasoline and they ran out quickly. Tons of diesel though. They are still rationing gas as of today and limiting people to $20 in cash only. I'm buying a diesel vehicle as soon as possible as a result, my wife things I'm crazy but having both seems to have some value. We had full tanks but the risk of getting stuck on a closed backroad was high and not being able to make it back, so we were stranded. Apparently fuel canisters in nearby SC are hard to locate now. I'm hoping to get down to Atlanta or somewhere and stock up, some rescue orgs are running low in smaller towns apparently. I had hoped to start running down for supplies sooner but we wouldn't have made it. We did what we could but were down to under a gallon in all our cars from doing what we were able the first two days locally.
Many are still stranded. FEMA/NG/etc are all here but I haven't seen them anywhere near us. They are (rightly so) focused on harder hit areas north. We have rescue swimmers coming to the fukin mountains from the coast to facilitate rescues and some of the organization has come from managers east of us who came to the mountains from the coastal areas. All of the relief in my small town is either organized by individuals or churches. Lots of free food, water, shelter, etc. Barber shops offering free hair washes, anyone with wifi opening networks, etc. People with Starlink are setting up hotspots in parking lots. The Waffle House was open by Friday PM, I guess the rumors are true, it never closes. Everyone is doing everything they can to help each other. The situation with the roads in/out being so badly damaged left us all feeling like help was a ways out and, people are doing what they can, but it was accurate. Stuff didn't start rolling in for at least 3-4 days. The relief has been flooding in though and apparently towns are going from being empty to passing things on to the next area. The needs change moment to moment but it's messy in some of the smaller areas.
I had a moment of epiphany yesterday when I was out and a handful of Ospreys flew over, the ground shook but something about the aesthetics of those aircraft just sent home the reality of what was going on.