I hate ff14 now to the point I can't play it at all, it's not because of the game but it's because of the obnoxious tophats that have annoyed me for years over multiple games.
It honestly takes me back to my high school days. Everyone around me played WoW (even the popular crowds), so I gave it a try. I didn't mind it all that much, but I got kinda bored of the never-ending chain of quests, and I got kinda bored of the aesthetic and gameplay. When I asked those same people to try FFXI as I had done WoW, I was met with scalding hatred. I didn't even put the game down, I just said it wasn't for me. Eventually I
did start getting defensive, and I even got to a point where my entire life started revolving around hating that game.
FFXIV is much the same now. I gave it a really honest shot, and even recognized it for its strengths. But my friends being complete boobs about FFXI, even though they'd never even tried it, really turned me off. And because I had to put up those defensive walls again, I started actively seeking faults in the game. Now I can't even stand the thought of playing it again. The mere mention of it in conversation makes my blood boil.