Too many questions, not enough tank. Simple.
I had one tank tell me to put my Egis on Obey. Which they ordinarily don't need to be, unless you're doing some next level ***. Of course this is in Dzemael Darkhold. After the first boss.
He tells me to wait to sic a pet on mobs until he's used overpower, which I wait to do, but this guy is full on herp de derp mode, yelling and screaming at the sch, which is the friend he Q'd with to enter, yelling at the machinist who is still relatively new to the job, and his turret/promotions, instead of, his job, which is tanking. And he's failing miserably at it, and shitting off a bad vibe about how he could, or has done everyone else's job in such a superior way. He wipes the group twice because the dumb *** can't hold hate on more than 2 mobs at a time. You know those big *** bloated Nix frogs on the bottom ledge? yeah, he pulls those and tells us to wait at the area we pop into, so "he can avoid aggroing them later during another pull". Yet he can't seem to manage flash OR overpower on them when the mobs come trotting in and stomping his *** flat. MCH gets wrecked a second time at this same pull, while targeting the tank's main mob, tank dies, says "*** you, you all suck" or something to that extent, and I whip out titan egi. Save the day and slowly progress until a new tank pops in, and we clear the darkhold.