Rooks locked a thread moments before I submitted my post ;_;
Well, I guess I'll just make it a PM instead.
Edit: never mind, I lost it. I thought I copied the message before sending it. Oh well.
Sorry. Emotions were running fairly high, and whatever people's opinions on the guy or his situation, he did just lose his father. I'm glad there was some generally constructive advice in there, but it was spiraling and I thought it best to limit the damage.
I didn't really want to lock it, because that keeps it from getting bumped, but I decided to err on the side of caution.