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 Phoenix.Kojo
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2010-09-22 19:21:07
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Phoenix.Darki said:
wtf alyria?

I'm not taking up for you, this time. I'm a useless male, who, if left to my own devices, would let the human race come to a terrible end.
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By Caitsith.Zefiris 2010-09-22 19:21:45
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Fenrir.Schutz said:
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Eh, not quite Dasva. Think she means Gimme's stuff, for the most part.
I just don't know why you would want to represent yourself with your crotch... *takes picture of my junk and makes it avatar* Darki, or anyone answer my question so this can go back to being on topic. Do babies love? essentially that's the question.
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
I only asked a question. :O Babies have an obvious connection with their mothers, but I think the definition of love would have to be clearly defined to have an opinion on whether they can love at that age.
damn Zef ...cluster post and I didn't see your when I posted this part lol.

It just goes back to what you were talking about earlier, about how animals "form attachments" but we project our values on that and we (as humans) make the judgement call on whether it is love or not.

Again, this stems from whether or not we can really know anything at all from perception...I would suggest that if we can observe a given behaviour, and note the levels of biochemistry involved to bring about that behaviour, that we could conclude that a given feeling exists in a creature that can't communicate that directly to us.

As to "love as a concept"...you do realise, too, that "attachment" is a concept also. Simply using a different, less-loaded word (like "attachment" instead of "love" or "distress" instead of "fear") doesn't preclude our ability as rational creatures to determine if something is occurring no? ^^ They are all conceptualised guesses or estimations of something we perceive...so if we are allowed to trust our perceptions and judgement, then we can comfortably guess whether or not babies or puppies love, too. :p Amoebas...well...we need stronger microscopes, perhaps. :p
Oh damn, I'm reminded why I went into engineering. This wordplay is killing me. x.x I'm not sure what to call the relationship between a baby and his mother other than an attachment based on instinct.

It kinda reminds me of the nature/nurture thing. Does the baby know it's his biological mother or just the person who is his caretaker?
 
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By Phoenix.Darki 2010-09-22 19:22:22
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Pandemonium.Spicyryan said:
Darki's avatar is misleading now.


no please
or it might get nuked too by all the whiners.

but its the same as the other avatars ive seen so it should be okay. kay? k.
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2010-09-22 19:22:33
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Fenrir.Schutz said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
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Eh, not quite Dasva. Think she means Gimme's stuff, for the most part.
I just don't know why you would want to represent yourself with your crotch... *takes picture of my junk and makes it avatar* Darki, or anyone answer my question so this can go back to being on topic. Do babies love? essentially that's the question.
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
I only asked a question. :O Babies have an obvious connection with their mothers, but I think the definition of love would have to be clearly defined to have an opinion on whether they can love at that age.
damn Zef ...cluster post and I didn't see your when I posted this part lol.

It just goes back to what you were talking about earlier, about how animals "form attachments" but we project our values on that and we (as humans) make the judgement call on whether it is love or not.

Again, this stems from whether or not we can really know anything at all from perception...I would suggest that if we can observe a given behaviour, and note the levels of biochemistry involved to bring about that behaviour, that we could conclude that a given feeling exists in a creature that can't communicate that directly to us.

As to "love as a concept"...you do realise, too, that "attachment" is a concept also. Simply using a different, less-loaded word (like "attachment" instead of "love" or "distress" instead of "fear") doesn't preclude our ability as rational creatures to determine if something is occurring no? ^^ They are all conceptualised guesses or estimations of something we perceive...so if we are allowed to trust our perceptions and judgement, then we can comfortably guess whether or not babies or puppies love, too. :p Amoebas...well...we need stronger microscopes, perhaps. :p
What I had in mind for attachment was in regards to dogs and the whole "pack mentality"

Even the concept of "pack mentality" is a projection of what we believe but it seems to be more applicable.
I just try to think of it in the most reasonable way from how I see things...
/states more existentialist jargon
:D
I like undefined things such as "do babies love" to stay in a veil of mystery lol.
Just depends on where you draw the line in regards to what is real for you.
This is some fun talk though :D/

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Pandemonium.Spicyryan said:
Darki's avatar is misleading now.


no please
or it might get nuked too by all the whiners.

but its the same as the other avatars ive seen so it should be okay. kay? k.
are those your boobs?
if so../fap
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2010-09-22 19:22:46
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Gilgamesh.Alyria said:
I dunno, that's kind of tough but if you think of it, a baby won't know what love is until you start being loveable with them, telling them to say i love you and you back at them, showing emotion.
Essentially what I said, yeah lol!
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By Phoenix.Darki 2010-09-22 19:23:58
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maybe~
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By Caitsith.Zefiris 2010-09-22 19:24:11
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Looks like boobs to me!
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-09-22 19:25:17
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Phoenix.Kojo said:
Phoenix.Darki said:
wtf alyria?
I'm not taking up for you, this time. I'm a useless male, who, if left to my own devices, would let the human race come to a terrible end.
Why let them when you can contribute? Slacker
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2010-09-22 19:25:41
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Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!

You really need to post a full-body pic..
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By Ramuh.Vinvv 2010-09-22 19:26:06
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Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!
I know, wanted to make her feel /loved with my perversion.

Phoenix.Kojo said:
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!

You really need to post a full-body pic..
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2010-09-22 19:27:00
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Ramuh.Dasva said:
Phoenix.Kojo said:
Phoenix.Darki said:
wtf alyria?
I'm not taking up for you, this time. I'm a useless male, who, if left to my own devices, would let the human race come to a terrible end.
Why let them when you can contribute? Slacker

Well, I mean, OMG it's like women only see us guys as a long piece of meat. I'm sick of being objectified!~
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By Ramuh.Dasva 2010-09-22 19:27:16
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Phoenix.Kojo said:
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!
You really need to post a full-body pic..
Saw this coming. Not like I disagree but still. Though I do miss the lolrelichat
 
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2010-09-22 19:27:31
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Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!
I know, wanted to make her feel /loved with my perversion.
Phoenix.Kojo said:
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!
You really need to post a full-body pic..

Zefie is mine.
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Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!
I know, wanted to make her feel /loved with my perversion.
Vinvv's staying on topic like a pro. :o
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Phoenix.Kojo said:
Ramuh.Dasva said:
Phoenix.Kojo said:
Phoenix.Darki said:
wtf alyria?
I'm not taking up for you, this time. I'm a useless male, who, if left to my own devices, would let the human race come to a terrible end.
Why let them when you can contribute? Slacker
Well, I mean, OMG it's like women only see us guys as a long piece of meat. I'm sick of being objectified!~
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By Gilgamesh.Alyria 2010-09-22 19:28:47
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Leviathan.Chaosx said:
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I dunno, that's kind of tough but if you think of it, a baby won't know what love is until you start being loveable with them, telling them to say i love you and you back at them, showing emotion.
Essentially what I said, yeah lol!


Sorry I missed what you said lol.

I'm sure if someone wanted to test it out they could. Just no loving to the baby and see what happens.
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Caitsith.Linear said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Caitsith.Zefiris said:
Looks like boobs to me!
I know, wanted to make her feel /loved with my perversion.
Vinvv's staying on topic LIKE A BOSS. :o
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By Quetzalcoatl.Sectumsempra 2010-09-22 19:29:07
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Asura.Abriannah said:
Hmm.. Babies dont know how to love in the sense you're thinking, But they definitely have a bond to their mothers that they dont have with anyone else.

I consider that love.

Chemical and subconscious.

Just like everything else.
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Quetzalcoatl.Sectumsempra said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
Hmm.. Babies dont know how to love in the sense you're thinking, But they definitely have a bond to their mothers that they dont have with anyone else. I consider that love.
Chemical and subconscious.

Just like everything else.
I like my subconscious. It just needs to listen to me better... but I'm pretty sure it thinks the same about me
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By Phoenix.Kojo 2010-09-22 19:31:06
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Ramuh.Dasva said:
Phoenix.Kojo said:
Ramuh.Dasva said:
Phoenix.Kojo said:
Phoenix.Darki said:
wtf alyria?
I'm not taking up for you, this time. I'm a useless male, who, if left to my own devices, would let the human race come to a terrible end.
Why let them when you can contribute? Slacker
Well, I mean, OMG it's like women only see us guys as a long piece of meat. I'm sick of being objectified!~

LMAO
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Ramuh.Dasva said:
Quetzalcoatl.Sectumsempra said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
Hmm.. Babies dont know how to love in the sense you're thinking, But they definitely have a bond to their mothers that they dont have with anyone else. I consider that love.
Chemical and subconscious.

Just like everything else.
I like my subconscious. It just needs to listen to me better... but I'm pretty sure it thinks the same about me

Can always recondition it.
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2010-09-22 19:31:32
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Gilgamesh.Alyria said:
Leviathan.Chaosx said:
Gilgamesh.Alyria said:
I dunno, that's kind of tough but if you think of it, a baby won't know what love is until you start being loveable with them, telling them to say i love you and you back at them, showing emotion.
Essentially what I said, yeah lol!


Sorry I missed what you said lol.

I'm sure if someone wanted to test it out they could. Just no loving to the baby and see what happens.
That's the scientist in you. I thought of experiements a few time of raising a baby in a room with no human interaction, etc. lol
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Quetzalcoatl.Sectumsempra said:
Ramuh.Dasva said:
Quetzalcoatl.Sectumsempra said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
Hmm.. Babies dont know how to love in the sense you're thinking, But they definitely have a bond to their mothers that they dont have with anyone else. I consider that love.
Chemical and subconscious. Just like everything else.
I like my subconscious. It just needs to listen to me better... but I'm pretty sure it thinks the same about me
Can always recondition it.
I am. But it can't keep up with me
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By Asura.Abriannah 2010-09-22 19:32:28
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Quetzalcoatl.Sectumsempra said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
Hmm.. Babies dont know how to love in the sense you're thinking, But they definitely have a bond to their mothers that they dont have with anyone else.

I consider that love.

Chemical and subconscious.

Just like everything else.

Sure, on a technical ground.. But to me (Which is where I think "proof" and "belief" plays in) I believe it's deeper than that.

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Leviathan.Chaosx said:
Gilgamesh.Alyria said:
Leviathan.Chaosx said:
Gilgamesh.Alyria said:
I dunno, that's kind of tough but if you think of it, a baby won't know what love is until you start being loveable with them, telling them to say i love you and you back at them, showing emotion.
Essentially what I said, yeah lol!


Sorry I missed what you said lol.

I'm sure if someone wanted to test it out they could. Just no loving to the baby and see what happens.
That's the scientist in you. I thought of experiements a few time of raising a baby in a room with no human interaction, etc. lol

More fun: put a kitten in a room with only vertical lines and striped paint without horizontal lines and it watch what happens after a few weeks when you put it on a table.
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By Gilgamesh.Alyria 2010-09-22 19:33:39
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Leviathan.Chaosx said:

That's the scientist in you. I thought of experiements a few time of raising a baby in a room with no human interaction, etc. lol


We must make babies to do experiments! lol XD
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Pandemonium.Spicyryan said:
Phoenix.Darki said:
Pandemonium.Spicyryan said:
Darki's avatar is misleading now.


no please
or it might get nuked too by all the whiners.


I honestly do not agree with it being nuked. Then again I am sure that there is a different more eloquent ninjaing editing opinion out there that would put me to shame.
awww careful
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Quetzalcoatl.Sectumsempra said:
Leviathan.Chaosx said:
Gilgamesh.Alyria said:
Leviathan.Chaosx said:
Gilgamesh.Alyria said:
I dunno, that's kind of tough but if you think of it, a baby won't know what love is until you start being loveable with them, telling them to say i love you and you back at them, showing emotion.
Essentially what I said, yeah lol!
Sorry I missed what you said lol. I'm sure if someone wanted to test it out they could. Just no loving to the baby and see what happens.
That's the scientist in you. I thought of experiements a few time of raising a baby in a room with no human interaction, etc. lol
More fun: put a kitten in a room with only vertical lines and striped paint without horizontal lines and it watch what happens after a few weeks when you put it on a table.
Kinda reminds me of a book I read awhile back. Pretty good and a bit of a mind *** lol
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